Naomi”<\/p>\n![](\"https:\/\/www.loveonpurpose.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/new12.svg\")
Hi Naomi,<\/p>\n
We\u2019re sorry to hear that you lost your husband, and we appreciate you reaching out. If you\u2019re wondering, \u201cWill I ever find love again\u201d we are here to\u00a0rekindle your hope about love\u00a0and your second chance at it (or third, or fourth, or however many chances you need).<\/p>\n
However, in order to manifest what you want, you have to ask the right question. And \u201cWill I ever find love again?\u201d is the wrong question to be asking.<\/p>\n
We want you to consider this instead: Do you WANT to have love again? Are you ready to share your life with someone?<\/p>\n
\u201cWill I ever find love again?\u201d implies that love is elusive and mysterious. Quite the opposite is true. Love is abundant and available to you all the time.<\/p>\n
Think about your children, do you wonder if the love you feel for them will disappear? Do you have only so much to share with them? Do you have to divide your love up between them?<\/p>\n
The love you feel for your children only grows. When your second child was born you didn\u2019t have to ration your love between them. You felt more love and had more love to give.<\/p>\n
This is the nature of love. It is infinite and ever-present. Your work is to discover\u00a0what is blocking you<\/a>\u00a0from creating all the love you desire.<\/p>\n Our first question for you is: Do you want to have love again?<\/p>\n Based on the fact that you reached out to us we would guess that the answer is yes. Since you have decided that\u00a0you want to have love<\/a>\u00a0you are well on your way.<\/p>\n Wondering if you will ever find love again puts you in a passive position. As if you\u2019re just waiting for love to show up.<\/p>\n The myth of accidental love leads many people to believe that love will just magically materialize one day. That as if by magic an ideal partner will find you and voila, you\u2019re set for the rest of your life!<\/p>\n And if for some reason it doesn\u2019t magically work out, then it just wasn\u2019t meant to be. This ultimately leaves you feeling powerless about your relationships and your ability to create the love you want.<\/p>\n Creating love means\u00a0you\u2019ve prepared for it, setting intentions, and taking action out in the world to make it happen.<\/p>\n Most people go out on dates and meet people, and as soon as they feel chemistry with someone they jump into a committed relationship. When it inevitably falls apart, they fall into despair and wonder if they will ever find love that lasts. This is the very definition of love by accident.<\/p>\n Make a decision that you are going to create the love you want. Take action on that decision. And don\u2019t let anything hold you back.<\/p>\n Owning your desire for love and intimacy is the first step.<\/p>\n What you believe is true is true for you. If you believe that love is in the cards for you, then you will create it. If you believe that all the good ones are taken, or all men cheat, then you\u2019re likely to have many of these experiences.<\/p>\n Your beliefs about love will shape your results. Discover your limiting beliefs that keep you from the love you desire.<\/p>\n For example, most people despise online dating and only put up with it because they believe they have no other options. They focus on all of the problems with the people they meet, and all the things that their dates are doing wrong. And instead of finding love they waste their time sharing their dating horror stories.<\/p>\n And yet, millions of other people meet and get married through a dating app or an online dating site.<\/p>\n Are these people just luckier than the rest?<\/p>\n Maybe the ones who got married didn\u2019t focus so much on what was wrong with online dating or with their dates. Instead,\u00a0they approached dating<\/a>\u00a0with a curious mind and an open heart.<\/p>\n If you are wondering \u201cWill I ever find love again?\u201d are you afraid that something bad will happen if you do? Are you hoping that love will just appear like it did when you were younger?<\/p>\n There is no limitation on love, so you can have many different loves of your life.<\/p>\n Expecting that there is some higher power micromanaging your life is ultimately dodging responsibility. You are the one that will decide whether or not you will find love again.<\/p>\n If you\u2019re wondering, \u201cWill I ever find love again?\u201d channel that energy into\u00a0designing your ideal relationship.<\/a><\/p>\n You can\u2019t just order up the perfect person off of a menu, so stop creating detailed lists of the qualities that you are looking for in your soulmate. Instead, take time to gain clarity on the dynamic between you and this other person you have not yet met. How do you feel when you are with him? How does he respond to you when you\u2019re upset?<\/p>\n Your heart doesn\u2019t care how tall a person is, or how much money he makes, or what kind of car he drives. Your heart wants him to get you, have your back, and that the two of you value the same things in life.<\/p>\n You are looking for someone\u00a0that you can navigate life\u2019s challenges with, someone who shares your dreams and goals. Relationship is like a dance. Make sure your partner knows how to move in harmony with you. Your ideal partner will have complementary strengths \u2013 he won\u2019t be just like you because he will be an entirely different person.<\/p>\n Knowing how you fit together with this other person is the key to manifesting a person who matches the vision you create.<\/p>\n \u201cWill I ever find love again?\u201d is a question we often hear from people who are\u00a0stuck in a rut<\/a>\u00a0and don\u2019t venture into unchartered territory. As human beings, we are inherently creatures of habit.<\/p>\n You\u2019re not going to find love again by sitting at home or absent-mindedly going through your daily routine.<\/p>\n Purposefully change your routine. Do the things you are putting off doing until you meet your soulmate. Don\u2019t put your life on hold in any way \u2013\u00a0go out and try new things, and most of all be curious about the people you meet.<\/p>\n Meeting new people is essential to creating an ideal partnership. Remember, every person you meet knows people that you do not know.<\/p>\n While you are taking these new actions, keep your mindset positive, open, and curious. We\u2019re not suggesting you do something foolhardy or dangerous. But taking calculated risks can bring you great rewards.<\/p>\n One of the biggest mistakes you can make is to believe that what happened in the past is an indicator of what will happen in the future. You have free will choice and you can create a completely different future if you choose to do things differently.<\/p>\n We are so open about our past struggles because we each personally made a lot of mistakes and did the work to learn and grow from them.\u00a0We share our personal journey\u00a0to one another to offer you hope that your past does not have to determine your future.<\/p>\n Everyone has experienced heartbreak. It is one of the most common experiences that all humans share. Your heartbreak may feel unique and special to you, but we guarantee you that someone else has a similar story.<\/p>\n Look for love stories of people you know that inspire you. Focus on love in all of its forms. Keep your mind focused on what you are creating\u00a0not what happened in the past.<\/a>\u00a0This will fuel you to keep going even when challenges come your way.<\/p>\n No matter your past, it\u2019s over and done with. The way to start anew is by imagining a vision of the future you desire and then taking action steps toward creating it.<\/p>\n There is no higher power doling out love deciding who gets it and who doesn\u2019t. You didn\u2019t meet some kind of imaginary quota; you have not used up a portion of love that was set aside for you. (It seems a bit silly when you think about it in this way, right?)<\/p>\n Love is who you are. You came into the world as the human embodiment of the energy of love and therefore, love is your birthright. You can never use it all up, or run out because\u00a0the love you seek is inside of you<\/a>.<\/p>\n Ultimately, you don\u2019t get love from another person \u2013 you share love with them.<\/p>\n Just like we wrote earlier about your children, you didn\u2019t have to ration your love so that you didn\u2019t waste all of it on the first child, leaving none for the rest. Instead, as each child was born, your capacity for love continued to grow.<\/p>\n Find the limitless well of love inside of you.\u00a0Share that love and it will grow\u00a0and grow throughout your life.<\/p>\n Not only is the future unknown, which is something you must come to terms with, you also have zero control over another individual.<\/p>\n If you want to commit yourself to someone but that person rejects you,\u00a0there is nothing more you can do<\/a>. If you believe that everything is working out for your highest good then you will discover the person you longed for was not an ideal match for you and that something better lies ahead.<\/p>\n Risking your heart does provide immense reward because only in partnership will you evolve and grow to live your purpose and truly be of service to others.<\/p>\n The foundation of a partnership provides so much more than just intimacy and friendship. It is the solid foundation that allows you to live up to your full potential. Many studies have shown<\/a> that the ability to create and maintain loving relationships is the key to success in life.<\/p>\n It\u2019s clear your past dating strategies aren\u2019t going to get you to your goal of long-lasting love. They may have worked in your 20\u2019s but dating changes as you get older. Instead of leaving love up to accident, discover a new way to create love by getting our special report,\u00a0 \u201c7 Steps To Soulmating\u2122.\u201d<\/a> You\u2019ll receive our top dating strategies that have helped thousands to avoid wasting their time with the wrong man and finally create their soulmate relationship.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" “Hi Orna and Matthew, Will I ever find love again? 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Your Beliefs About Love Will Create Your Reality<\/h3>\n
Get Clear On The Kind Of Relationship You Want<\/h3>\n
Challenge Yourself To Be Adventurous But Not Careless<\/h3>\n
Your Past Does Not Determine Your Future<\/h3>\n
There Is No Limit On Love<\/h3>\n
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Loving Someone Is Always A Risk<\/h3>\n